Category: Identity Formation

Success: There’s No Instruction Manual!

Do you often wonder what success really means? Is it all about materialistic possessions like a high-paying job, a luxurious house, and a fancy car? Or is it something more significant, like finding meaning and purpose in your life? If you are one of those people who believe that success goes beyond

SMART: Not For Qualitative Goals!

Are you looking for ways to improve your communication skills, become more mindful, or build stronger relationships? If so, you may have heard of the SMART goal framework. This popular tool is often used to set and achieve specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound objectives. However, SMART goals may not be the

Outsmart Your Brain: Learning Principles for a Better Education

In his book, Outsmart Your Brain: Why Learning Is Hard and How You Can Make It Easy, Daniel Willingham introduces us to a new way of learning that is based on cognitive psychology principles. This guide will help you understand how your brain works and how to make the most of its

Authenticity: A Clash between Achievement and True Success!

In a world obsessed with external achievements and accolades, David Brooks’ “The Road to Character” serves as a compelling reminder of the importance of developing inner virtues and moral character. This book, which aligns with Rudder4Life’s Personal Development Framework, emphasises the need to focus on “eulogy virtues” rather than “résumé virtues” and

Relationship Challenges: Building Bridges Across Values.

Imagine you are standing on one side of a river, and your loved one is standing on the other. The river represents the differences in values, beliefs, and priorities that can create significant challenges in personal relationships. Building a bridge across this river requires skills that we’ve either neglected or lacking. In

Values: For Better Self-Control and Success!

Have you ever wondered why people sometimes make decisions that they know are wrong? The answer often lies in their values or lack thereof. As discussed previously, values are the principles and beliefs that guide our actions and decisions. In this article, we will explore how to develop strong values, using powerful

The Second Mountain: The Bridge to Selflessness!

In our pursuit of happiness and success, we often find ourselves balancing between pursuing our own goals and helping others. David Brooks, in his book, “The Second Mountain,” explains this journey and shows us a way to move from self-centredness to selflessness. He uses the metaphor of climbing a second mountain to

Take Command of Your Lives!

In today’s uncertain world, we all face numerous challenges and opportunities that can impact our lives in significant ways which makes it crucial to learn how to take command of our thoughts, emotions, relationships, and future to achieve personal growth and success. At Rudder4Life, we find inspiration in the book “Take Command”

Learning to do: The Bridge between Theory and Practice!

Part 5 of Learning When it comes to learning and growth, there’s more to it than just theoretical knowledge. Learning to do emphasises the importance of not just acquiring information but also developing the skills and competencies needed to effectively apply that knowledge in real-world scenarios. Confucius’s quote “The essence of knowledge