Category: Learn to Be

The High Price of Chasing Desires!

We live in a world where shopping carts brim with desires disguised as needs. It feels like we’re all running on a treadmill called “more”. The glitter of possessions often blinds us to deeper truths. But have you ever wondered, “Where is this treadmill taking us?” Psychologist Tim Kasser, in his provocative

Rethinking Success: Finding Meaning Beyond Wealth and Achievement!

Many find themselves adrift in a world that often equates success with wealth and prestige, much like a ship without a rudder. J. Douglas Holladay’s insightful book, “Rethinking Success: Eight Essential Practices for Finding Meaning in Work and Life“, challenges this conventional wisdom by proposing a framework that emphasises purpose, relationships, and

Rising Strong: See Vulnerability as a Strength!

For all its beauty, life can often feel like an unpredictable storm. It pushes, tests, and sometimes even throws us to the ground. Many of us wish for smooth sailing, but as Brené Brown shares in her compelling book, “Rising Strong: The Reckoning. The Rumble. The Revolution.”, proper growth and resilience don’t

The Art of Authenticity: Expose Life’s Truths and Lies!

In a world that spins faster every day, authenticity might seem like a luxury, something for the few who have time to reflect deeply. Yet, as Karissa Thacker’s “The Art of Authenticity: Tools to Become an Authentic Leader and Your Best Self” tells us, adopting authenticity is not just a choice; it’s

How Competing Values Shape Our Choices and Behaviours

Imagine standing at a busy crossroads with paths branching in every direction. Each path represents a different decision you could make: staying safe on the well-trodden path, taking a risky shortcut, or venturing down a winding route no one else has tried. This crossroads is a metaphor for our daily lives, where

Why We Learn Better When We Care?

Have you ever sat through a boring lecture or training session, dutifully taking notes, only to forget everything shortly after? It’s like being at a fancy dinner, and the chef serves a dish with all the best ingredients—but it’s bland. You poke at it, unimpressed, because despite the quality, it lacks what

Beliefs: The Invisible Architects of Our Reality!

Belief systems are like the lenses through which we view the world. Just as a pair of glasses helps someone see clearly, our beliefs shape how we interpret experiences, make decisions, and interact with others. So, they are like the invisible blueprints that shape the architecture of our lives. Just as a

The Art of Changing Minds in a Polarised World

In a world where opinions clash like waves against a rocky shore, the ability to change minds has become a vital skill. It’s a challenge that can feel like trying to move a mountain with a spoon—it’s slow, tedious, and often feels impossible. In his book Mindstuck: Mastering the Art of Changing

Character: The Foundation of an Enduring Legacy!

Is leadership truly about power, status, and wealth, or does it hold a deeper, more profound meaning? In today’s world, many associate leadership with these external symbols of success. However, the book Leading with Character: 10 Minutes a Day to a Brilliant Legacy by Dr. Jim Loehr and Caren Kenney presents a

Self-Awareness: Controlling Arguments for Healthier Relationships!

We’ve all been there – caught in the heat of an argument, emotions running high, and saying things we regret later. Arguments are a natural part of any relationship, but they don’t have to be destructive. In his book “Why We Argue and How to Stop”, therapist Jerry Manney offers practical strategies