Have you ever wondered why people sometimes make decisions that they know are wrong? The answer often lies in their values or lack thereof. As discussed previously, values are the principles and beliefs that guide our actions and decisions. In this article, we will explore how to develop strong values, using powerful
In our pursuit of happiness and success, we often find ourselves balancing between pursuing our own goals and helping others. David Brooks, in his book, “The Second Mountain,” explains this journey and shows us a way to move from self-centredness to selflessness. He uses the metaphor of climbing a second mountain to
In today’s uncertain world, we all face numerous challenges and opportunities that can impact our lives in significant ways which makes it crucial to learn how to take command of our thoughts, emotions, relationships, and future to achieve personal growth and success. At Rudder4Life, we find inspiration in the book “Take Command”
Part 5 of Learning When it comes to learning and growth, there’s more to it than just theoretical knowledge. Learning to do emphasises the importance of not just acquiring information but also developing the skills and competencies needed to effectively apply that knowledge in real-world scenarios. Confucius’s quote “The essence of knowledge
Are you tired of chasing happiness but feeling like it’s always a step ahead? Maybe you’re successful on paper, but something feels missing. If that sounds familiar, then “Build the Life You Want” by Arthur Brooks and Oprah Winfrey might be the book you’ve been waiting for, especially if you’re already familiar
Self-determination is a crucial aspect of personal autonomy and empowerment. It involves making choices and decisions based on one’s preferences and values. However, introverts often face unique challenges in achieving self-determination, as they tend to be more reserved and inward-focused. In this discussion, we will highlight why self-determination is often more difficult
Imagine embarking on a voyage without a map or compass. Just as sailors rely on navigational tools to chart their course, self-awareness provides invaluable insights into our strengths, weaknesses, preferences, and tendencies. For young adults, this can be a lighthouse guiding them through the turbulent seas of adolescence and into the vast
In the journey of personal growth, self-discipline plays a crucial role. Daniel Goldstein once said, “I think self-discipline is like a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it gets.” It is like a muscle that needs to be exercised and strengthened. Think of it as the power to control your
Responsibility, a seemingly simple concept, has crept its way into the fabric of our daily lives. From personal relationships to societal structures, the notion of responsibility governs our choices and actions. According to Joan Didion, “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” But
Part 3 of Learning In the intricate dance of human interaction, Learning to Be is the bridge that links individuality (self) to collectivity (society), weaving the intricate fabric of society. At Rudder4Life, we recognise Learning to Be as a fundamental pillar of personal and societal growth, empowering young adults to overcome the