Self-Esteem: The Good, Bad and Ugly!

Self-esteem, the foundation of our self-worth and confidence, plays a crucial role in shaping our lives. It is our overall evaluation of our own worth or value as a human being. It is how we feel about ourselves, our abilities, and our place in the world. It impacts our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours in various […]

Behaviour Show Who You Are!

Imagine your behaviours as a mirror that reflects who you truly are. Just like your clothes, hairstyle, and how you talk express a part of your identity, your actions and choices showcase even more about who you are. Think of your identity as a puzzle, and each behaviour you show is like a unique puzzle […]

Achieving Needs Conceiving!

This Photo by Unknown Author is licensed under CC BY-ND Do you dare to dream big? Remember Napoleon Hill’s famous quote, “If your mind can conceive it, you can achieve it,” captures a profound truth about the connection between our thoughts and actions. This notion is not just an inspirational catchphrase; it’s a fundamental principle […]

Success Needs a Plan

You must have heard the famous saying, “Those who fail to plan, plan to fail.” It’s a sad truth that is undeniable. Planning is like the secret ingredient that can help you achieve incredible things. Whether you aim for a personal goal, such as saving for something cool, or a professional milestone, like landing your […]

Discover Purpose to Find Meaning

Amid the chaos and excitement of adolescence, a critical journey lies ahead of us, one that can shape our future and give our lives greater meaning. As Socrates once said, “The unexamined life is not worth living,” reminding us that we shouldn’t take our lives for granted. Instead, we should live with intention and purpose, […]

The Puzzle Pieces of Identity: Self-Concept and Self-Esteem

(Part 4 of 9) Introduction Imagine your identity as a mesmerising puzzle, with each piece representing a unique side of who you are. Today, we’re focussing on the two essential pieces of this puzzle: self-concept and self-esteem. These pieces work together to shape your understanding of yourself and your world. Let’s explore how they fit […]

Are You Secure?

(Part 5 of 5) Introduction Security is a fundamental need that goes beyond ourselves. It is not only about our safety but also about ensuring the safety of others. We discuss why our security is dependent on the security of others and how we can work together to create a safer world. Why Our Security […]

Responsibility: Are We Truly Accountable?

(Part 2 of 5) Introduction Responsibility, a word we often hear, has much more to it than meets the eye. It affects how we live our lives and make choices every day. But have you ever stopped to think about what it means to be responsible? Are we living up to our responsibilities, or have […]

Success: A Means, Not an End!

(Part 3 of 5) Traditionally, success has been viewed as an end, measured by specific goals achieved. We set targets such as landing a dream job, earning a certain income, or obtaining a prestigious title, believing that these milestones will define our success. However, this perspective may limit our understanding and the experience of true […]

A Trinity of Values For a Better Society

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(Part 1 of 5) Introduction: The harmonious functioning of any society depends on the interaction between responsibility, freedom, and security. These three elements are the building blocks for a peaceful and balanced community. They must function together; having one without the other is impossible. An important lesson from the July 2021 riots in South Africa […]