Balancing Freedom & Responsibility: Why Selfish Behaviour Cannot Be Tolerated?
Freedom is a fundamental aspect of human existence, cherished and fought for throughout history. However, with freedom comes responsibility. It’s often said that these two concepts are two sides of the same coin, inseparable and interconnected. While personal freedom allows individuals to pursue their desires and aspirations, it must be exercised with caution and consideration […]
Balancing Integration and Differentiation in Social Systems
Chapter 2 Part 2 The fabric of human society is complicatedly constructed by two fundamental processes: integration and differentiation. Though seemingly opposing, they are actually complementary and work in harmony to shape our social systems. They are two sides of the same coin, and both are equally crucial. Therefore, we should not sacrifice integration for […]
Succes: Our Recipe!
Success. It’s a word that carries weight, resonating with each of us in different ways. For some, it’s the corner office in a high-rise building or buying a new car or house. For others, it’s the simple joy of seeing loved ones smile. But what truly defines success? So, what can success look like in […]
You Only Free if Others Are Too!
(Part 4 of 5) Freedom extends beyond making individual choices and achieving independence. It is a fundamental idea that unites us all and profoundly influences our existence. We explore why, what and how our freedom is connected to the freedom of others. Understanding this interdependency is vital, as it helps shape a more inclusive and […]
Curiosity: The Spark of Intrinsic Motivation
What if the key to success isn’t having all the answers but asking more questions? Curiosity is like a compass in the vast ocean of human experience. It helps us navigate challenging times, sheds light on the unknown, and drives us toward discovery and understanding. As Paul Ashcroft, Simon Brown, and Garrick Jones suggest, “Curiosity […]
Championing Introverts in a World of Noise!
In a world that often celebrates extroversion as the epitome of success by praising the loud and outgoing, the quiet strength of introverts often goes unnoticed. Just like how a diamond may be small and unassuming, but its worth is immeasurable. “Our culture values and rewards the qualities of extroverts,” as both Susan Cain and […]
Self-Discipline: The Muscle of Success
In the journey of personal growth, self-discipline plays a crucial role. Daniel Goldstein once said, “I think self-discipline is like a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it gets.” It is like a muscle that needs to be exercised and strengthened. Think of it as the power to control your impulses, stay focused […]
Unveiling Responsibility: Are We Truly Accountable?
Responsibility, a seemingly simple concept, has crept its way into the fabric of our daily lives. From personal relationships to societal structures, the notion of responsibility governs our choices and actions. According to Joan Didion, “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” But what does it […]
No Problem, No Thought!
Have you ever heard the saying, “If you don’t have problems, you’re not really thinking”? This thought, attributed to the philosopher John Dewey, essentially highlights that our thinking process is only kick-started when faced with problems or challenges. Our minds tend to take a back seat when life is smooth sailing. Think of it this […]
Learning to Be: The Bridge Between Self and Society!
Part 3 of Learning In the intricate dance of human interaction, Learning to Be is the bridge that links individuality (self) to collectivity (society), weaving the intricate fabric of society. At Rudder4Life, we recognise Learning to Be as a fundamental pillar of personal and societal growth, empowering young adults to overcome the complexities of human […]